June 1, pm Updated June 1, pm. Not for so-called Stags, though. These guys get their rocks off watching their wife or girlfriend having sex with other dudes. The Stag either joins in or watches as a voyeur. However you could be mistaken for thinking that as the definition of a cuckold is a man who enjoys the act of his wife being pleasured by another male. The Bull, the wife or both dominate the encounter and the cuckold gets his sexual thrill from the masochistic shame and humiliation. Although their 72K Twitter followers do.
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We are in our early forties with three teenage kids and our year marriage is mostly happy. On the way home my wife asked if I wanted to give it a try. I rang my mate the next day and asked if we could join in a session with them. We went to their house the next weekend and after sharing a few bottles of wine we went to their bedroom. I was kissing his wife and then having sex with her but what I was really focused on was hearing my wife enjoying herself. I got such a sexual buzz from it. Is it normal that I get so turned-on? DEIDRE SAYS: Watching your wife have sex with other men is both real and a fantasy for you in the sense that you are on the outside looking in, and only focusing on the sexual titillation it is giving you and not having to consider how you are going to fulfil her sexual needs yourself. Women are wired sexually rather differently from men and for most sexual pleasure is very much tied up with their feelings for their partner.
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CNM is practised in all sorts of forms, such as polyamory having multiple romantic partners and swinging swapping sexual partners with other couples. There are variations in how cuckolding plays out for different couples—some cuckolds enjoy being verbally and sexually humiliated—but cuckolds are generally involved with watching their partner have sex. All varieties of cuckolding can be practised by anyone, regardless of their gender identity or sexuality. Nonetheless, there seems to be a high proportion of straight men who are interested in it—and yes, if you sleep with men, you might be familiar with a version of dirty talk that involves you recounting past hookups.
I learned that jealousy is optional. The most unexpected part of this whole thing was that I felt zero jealousy. It showed me that jealousy is a product of my perspective and it was entirely my choice whether I indulged it or not. I discovered some new fantasies.